How to: Become the Main character in your life!

Are you ready to become the main character in your life? Are you tired of feeling stuck on the sidelines in your own life? In this post, you will learn how to become your main character and the benefits including a more fulfilling, purposeful, and exciting life.

You must learn to be three people at once: writer, character, and reader.
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Now I understand that you may be wondering, “How did I get sidelined/benched in my own life?” and “How do I become the main character in my life?”. First, I want you to think back to being a kid. Remember all of the goals and dreams that we were sure that would accomplished? Remember how before technology our days were filled with learning, exploring, and dreaming. Technology is both the best and worst thing that has come about (depending on how you use it). Today, most of us wake up and the first thing we do is grab our phone to check emails, social media accounts, texts, etc. Few realized that by doing this we subconsciously place ourselves into the lives of others instead of living in our own. This opens the door for envy and jealousy, often leaving us feeling incompetent in our lives (beginning a vicious cycle).

I have created five steps that you can take to become the main character in your life. Step one, stop worrying about other people’s lives more than your own. Come to terms with the fact that sometimes you have to be selfish in order to be selfless (you can’t pour from an empty cup). Step two, begin self-love routines (do what makes you feel good, happy and loved). Step three, start visualizing your dream life (let your inner child guide you). Step four, create strategies to achieve your dream life. Step five, start acting on your plan daily! Remember, a vision without action is just a dream.

Implement these five steps for a more fulfilling, purposeful, and exciting life. Comment below your visions, thoughts, and experiences with becoming the main character in your life. Please LIKE, SHARE, and SUBSCRIBE!

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